Listen to the money talk

From one Father to another and not to be construed as legal advice . . .

When you are thrown into this racketeering court by a bitter and vindictive spouse you are at an extreme disadvantage before you have even begun. Your wife has been setting you up for years. Hell, they even teach classes (for women only) at SPSCC on how to do it and women talk. They know. You are bewildered and spinning from betrayal, confused and heart sick over your kids being wrongly stolen and ripped away from you. There will be many that offer to help, all at a price (mostly hidden to you at the time) and known empty promises. The fact is, there is nothing you can do. You do not have rights in this court and a divorce is not just a divorce. If a woman wants to be ugly and make you pay for her emotional problems, all she has to do is make some statements about power and control or she is scared of you and it's over. You are done. Hard evidence against the woman or counterclaims of abusive behavior will only enrage this Court and sink you deeper in the quick sand. Do not waste your time pursuing justice in this court or building a record for the higher courts in this state. They are just as bad and belong to the same club that is designed to separate you from your money. It is a business not a court of law of the people, for the people and by the people. The kids are the key and the only leverage they have to get you to pony up all you have to engage in the war and be extorted. Whether you spend the money to fight them or get steamrolled into all the money programs they have set up for you, you will lose and you will pay. So, don't do either. I have heard stories of spiffs under the table buying some justice. But, as for me, I couldn't play that game even if I wanted to. Get in, get out and say goodbye to your kids. Women get drunk on the power they are given and turn into an animal you never imagined they could be. Once women turn the switch, that's it. Make no mistake about it, this is a MALE fault (not a no fault) divorce state. There is no rational mediating or wise, mature judge sorting things out. You ARE at fault for being male and having an opinion different than a feminist. The judge and commissioner will flat out tell you that you are wrong and they are not even subtle about it. So, minimize the damage, fight for the best financial deal you can get without spending a ton on lawyers and court fees etc. Mainly, though, kiss your kids goodbye. I was told this by several older men (business clients, associates and friends) and I did not want to listen. I wanted to believe in justice and believe that there was integrity and value in the higher courts and "the law" or that somewhere in our government there was somebody who would consider the facts, evidence and fairness and apply them all to the law that was somehow gender blind. But, that is naive. The only hope you have is that your (soon to be) ex will one day stop being a bitch. The Washington Courts will only embolden her and make a ton of money off of you. You can not win. They will even try to criminalize you, arrest you and harass you if you stand up to their bully system. A story for another time. If you do stay in and fight for the truth, document it the whole way in journal form and in building a good court record. Be clear, you are building a record for your kids, not a higher court. A good attorney will at least do that for you for the outrageous sums you pay them. Most, in this county, won't. So, shop for counsel wisely and stay engaged in your case and be prepared to fire two or three attorneys until you find one with a shred of professional integrity. Perhaps one that is fresh out of law school that hasn't yet sold out his/her knowledge of right and wrong for "the law."


Whether you are talking about attorneys or self centered borderlines, it's all about the money and it's all about women's dominance. You may be an asshole, outspoken or plain just not a like able guy to these PC Oly Libs and feminists. But, that isn't a crime. However, it is to them. Don't be naive about this court or the profession of law when you are thrown into this court. Get in, get out without waisting your time and money on pursuing justice. It is first and foremost a business and you are not carrying a bar union card. It is not about justice or our rights under the Constitution. I know you love your kids and your heart is broken, but only God and time can help you now. This court will not.

Listen to the money talk.