Some good advice in the links below. Rise above the current divorce court culture. It is very profitable to destroy families and separate children from one parent. This court is running a multi-million dollar cottage (rather mansion) industry . . . the business of "family law." The State of Washington DSHS budget benefits too. Of course they will take one side and of course they do not care about the fallout on the children. They are merchants of misery who only care about making the most money for the lawyers, judges and the state. They are elitists who operate in the best interest of the state and themselves not "best interest of the children." That is a well over worn cliche they use in their PC meetings to pat each other on the back and convince each other that they are really good people just serving their sheeples. Think about the future and what impact your alienation will have on your children who are people unto themselves. All kids have a right to a relationship with both parents despite how you feel towards the other parent. Be a grown up. That's what being a parent is about. Does it matter that some family court wack job agrees with you and says you are wonderful for having the correct hormones and plumbing? Marriages don't end because two people still like each other or see things the same way. That doesn't mean your kids have to see it either way and you shouldn't force them to. If that doesn't sway you, ask someone outside of your "support" circle what the kids will think about you for keeping them from the other parent who loves them. The article is right . . . Using Children as weapons is CHILD ABUSE. The kids come to realize that at some point. I hope you alienators out there can see that for your own sake. Good luck and God bless.
Stop Using Children as Weapons (featured article)
Using Children as Weapons (some good advice from a couple of single moms)